id: 46693 - Text: Iâm not one to judge, I donât ask myself why, I ask myself why not when it comes to people like her and I. I have no doubt they had I not met the people I did, when I did, I wouldnât have many options as a young adult. When you come from poverty and chaos itâs very difficult to not become a statistic in many ways. The system is fundamentally flawed and broken. We often go into foster care with the expectation to be protected only to be further traumatized and harmed in the care of the very same people who were supposed to help heal and protect you. Unless youâve lived it, youâll never understand just what a profound level of hurt comes from being torn away from your parents, your siblings, youâre loved ones and friends. You grow up questioning who you are and where you come from. You are treated like a chore instead of a child. You are used and abused to run farms and other places disguised to be a place of healing for the most at risk children. You are shifted, removed, thrown to, and passed around foster home to foster home, detention facility and group home. I personally saw 14+ foster homes and placements, 7+ schools, and 3 states in 12 years. Many times I was removed due to another foster sibling telling the judge of the abuse and horrors we faced in the home. I was put in detention facilities, group homes, and institutions not because I did anything wrongâbut because they literally had no other place for me to go. Youâll never know what it is like as a 10 year old scared little girl to be forced to share a room with another kid who is in there for killing someone or committing a violent crime. As a foster child you canât go over to your friends house, you canât have sleep overs, you canât go out of town on vacation, you canât cut or color your hair. You canât get dropped off at the mall with friends or spend a few hours at the skating rink. Donât even think about going to do anything even outside in your neighborhood with friends because anywhere we goâthe state must approve, background checks/fingerprints, & home studies must be done prior to doing anything with anyone else. Your childhood and any chance of a normal childhood is ripped from you. Want to take a picture with your friend? Think again! Foster Children are not allowed to be videoed and/or photographed, ever. All your friends are on social media, MySpace & AOL back in my dayâif youâre a foster child you arenât allowed access to the internet, for your âsafetyâ remember. And if you want, I could go on and on. Youâll never understand what it does to a childâs psyche when holidays come and go and youâre the one who has to TAKE the picture or stand to the sue because youâre not allowed to be remembered. Healthcare? Forget it. You are moved so many times and so frequently there is no chance for you to build up rapport with any professional let alone get quality care. You are on state insurance and youâre nothing but a Guinea pig & experiment. When you finally trust someone thatâs when youâre an experience, too. Itâs no wonder so many at risk youth and foster children turn to the sex industry to survive. Weâve been taken advantage of, misused, abused, and left at the waste side our entire lives! We are labeled and destined to be a statistic with a life like this. It is not lost on me why she sells her body. Spend a few days in our shoes and youâll understand too. I am one of 8 siblings. I have 2 full blooded siblings and out of all of us only two have managed to make it out of our childhoods relatively unscathed. That is only after years and years and years of professional help and therapy. If my therapist didnât see value in me all those years ago I would still be heavily medicated and used as a check to this day. Make no mistake about itâno one chooses this life. This life was chosen for them far before they EVER had a choice, a chance, a voice, or an opportunity to do something different. If your still reading this, may you never know this pain. May you never see the devil face to face. đđźâ¤ď¸âđŠš
id: 46720 - Text: There's a common theme and lesson in nearly all of these videos...Look out for the children! Why does America have trillions to spend on wars thousands of miles away but can't protect its own children at home?
id: 46729 - Text: Common denominator in all these videos. A horrible abusive sexually abused child. This is how a woman/man starts drug addiction, alcoholism, prostitution, porn etc. it is a vicious circle.
id: 46731 - Text: Some people are quick to judge others, and this video literally tells us NOT to judge others!
id: 46752 - Text: I wish all these people could do Ayahuasca cerimonies and treatments⌠I feel it is the most healing method out thereâŚ. But clearly main stream society doesnât approve nor talk about this way of healing. All the people in these videos would get so much healing from AyahuascaâŚâŚ these people with so much suffering.
id: 46812 - Text: What is wrong with people in this world. At what point in their life did they switch to the point where it felt ok to abuse. There are so many of these videos on YouTube and it scares me to think of the amount of people who have been abused but donât tell their story. Itâs been going on too long and there needs to be the harshest of punishment globally for anyone that hurts a child. By the sounds of it there are so many of these predators in the foster system too. Who is policing this ???⌠So angry đĄ
id: 46817 - Text: Weird thing about these videos is people commenting that they don't want to watch porn anymore after learning these girls were abused as children. Really? How about blaming the people who abused them? That's the problem. Abuse of women and children. Something that is probably happening in your neighborhoods, schools or work places as we speak. Focus on the real problem.
id: 46818 - Text: Those videos are so powerful
id: 46821 - Text: I am utterly disgusted by some creeps in these comments, good lord. You watch this video, see how absolutely broken this woman is and STILL, STILL you go on to sexualize her? Still you can only see the porn actress in her, still you can only see the ways in which she would be able to serve you instead of listening to her story and taking her seriously as a human being? The fucking audacity of some people, holy shit. I swear to god I have to stop reading comments on social media before I lose the last tiny bit of faith in humanity that is left in me.