id: 47259 - Text: "yeah it was bad, but that's okay" - as a clinical therapist who has worked with clients of sexual abuse and early childhood traumas this is a very common thing to hear. It's often easier to just brush things off and say that it's normal or okay which can often be helpful for immediate survival but can be damaging long-term. I've always known the sad stories behind p*** and I don't think they're going away anytime soon but it reinforces the notion that most porn is actually born from tragedy, not passion.
id: 47276 - Text: I think passion and tragedy are in many ways related. Why we love to read novels with protagonist up and down through tragedy and misery? Porn video is one way to demonstrate their feeling been sexually humiliated and abused during childhood. Question is why people pay and watch porn video?
id: 47277 - Text: @Lee-jc1ob sorry but that is a massive false equivalency. To compare our desire to read fictional novels with storylines and character arcs that have the protagonist struggle through events to come out victorious on the other end is nowhere near the same as people enacting out their childhood traumas in real time. Sexual abuse is not something that just goes away and almost every client I've worked with has had serious, often irreversible impacts on their lives.
id: 47279 - Text: Its not so much as brushing it off, it is just accepting it and learning to move on. We can't sit and dwell and harp on our problems and sorrows constantly or have to keep overly divulging in it. Sometimes its best to just move on and focus on better things, if this career makes her happy and is her escape to it then so be it. Many people who have trauma it comes out in their sexual lives and thats how they cope.
id: 47280 - Text: I’m no expert but if I were a betting person I would almost guarantee that the women in p*** feel no real passion and zero sexual pleasure or satisfaction. It’s performative, fake as fk and I think divorced from the way women look and act when actually experiencing pleasure. Sure plenty of women in real life might copycat this p*** star behavior sexually solely to appease men. P**n is definitely born of tragedy 99.9% of the time.
id: 47285 - Text: @benmaghsoodi2067 He didn't said that. You should improve your reading comprehension because you completely missed it. He's referring to the general notion (not his) that somehow, porn consumers may believe that porn actresses are there because they're passionate about sex, when in reality it's almost always a derivation of trauma. So he said: "[This video] reinforces the notion that porn is born out of trauma, not passion".
id: 47355 - Text: She does seem sweet. I am forever suspicious of ppl. If her jaw was broken and never taken or went to the ER/Hosp, why isn't there some deformity in her jaw line. I looked, believe me. Her jaw line is chiseled and doesn't look like it has ever been broken. Besides she would have a very hard time eating and would take her first opportunity to get to a hospital. With all this social worker interaction it seems like someone would have gotten her to an ER. People like her have a tendency to fab parts of their story and how is anyone to prove anything. She's cute as heck and I do not wish sexual molestation on anyone.
id: 47393 - Text: She doesn't know that it's not normal when her husband turns on to watching her have sex
id: 47398 - Text: I love how she throws her hands up on her hips and makes a funny voice when using certain emotions.. so cute. I use to know a guy a couple that the husband always wanted me to sleep with his wife and let him watch.. had she been more my type I might have tried it.. " and yes he loved her". Not everybody looks at sex as big of a deal as others.. loyalty and the fact she sticks with him no matter how "good" you give it to her means way more.
id: 47498 - Text: It's very common for people who have been molested to be hyper sexual