id: 466531 - Text: Life as a stripper isn't right for everyone, but for some,like me, stripping was the best choice for my life. My experience may be unique,but dancing empowered me. I had good boundaries and didn't allow others to hurt me. I did what I was comfortable with and not more. I also didn't judge other women who had different rules for themselves.
I'm naturally exhibitionists a d theatrical, so stripping gave me a safe, lucrative way of expressing these feelings. Believe it or not, I am well respected in the clubs I worked at because I did choreography. I always got along with men, as a tomboy, and while not an alcoholic, enjoyed drinking with everyone.
The problems with drugs, liquor,or sex addictions are definitely present in the dance clubs, but in our twenties,isn't everyone dealing with these issues? Aren't kids in college drinking too much and having casual sex, alot? Guys can treat women badly anywhere, in the club we have bouncers to protect us.
Because I didn't let anyone touch me, sometimes I lost out on money, but more often, by having standards,I made more because men respected me and would become my fan.
This ma7y be hard to believe, but by saying no, telling men I only dance for money and only have sex if I'm in love actually brought tears to Guys, because guess what? Most men are decent and get their hearts broken by immature females all the time. There are so many men who are single fathers because the girl they love is an addict, a cheat, or mentally ill. I've had men come in because their wife died and they just want to hold my hand and cry.
In our politically correct world, we need someplace appropriate for those of who like it, to be ourselves, not be judged, and be allowed to be bawdy,without offending all the snowflakes.
Thanks for your very interesting videos😉💖😸.
id: 466538 - Text: "Just because I'm a sex worker doesnt give you permission to touch me"
[Unless you give me $20]
id: 466543 - Text: Considering everything, she's got a really good head on her shoulders. She's able to identify the problems and knows them instantly, her main vice is about finding a solution that doesn't hurt as bad as the trauma she's already been through. The hurdle she needs to pass now is getting past her failure to plan, because not doing so is planning to fail. Besides sex talk, she needs to have conversations with some of the jobs about the kind of industries they're in so to afford her services in the first place. Take it from myself; my father was a jeweler and his father before him a steel welder. Both were engineers in their own right; but where it left me was back to the transportation industry as per our last names namesake; the captain, because our ancestors worked on fishing boats back of the day. On good weeks, I'm making just as much, if not more than most strippers out there. On bad weeks, I'm bringing in a minimum wage work week. All of this is figuring out your income to expense ratio, of which she needs to figure what kind of challenge she's willing to put herself out there for versus the risk and especially the reward she wants in this life.
id: 466546 - Text: She was tryna tell him a story and he cut her off like so when did the sex start for you? Lmfaooo 🤣🤣 like man don’t nobody give a fuck bout you throwing a party 💀💀
id: 466551 - Text: thank you for speaking the truth that not all sex workers are victims.
id: 466555 - Text: Â @msp5138Â I am not in denial darling, I am telling my truth. My experience in stripping was fun, empowering,and allowed me a safe, appropriate outlet for my sexual exhibitionistic tendencies. Do you want me walking around naked in front of your church?
id: 466563 - Text:  @queengoblin I think she means best choice as far as lifestyle/ financially. I’m not a stripper but bottle girl and I work with strippers a lot, and people still see bottle girls as sex workers. I have considered dancing as they make more money. If it wasn’t for the club you wouldn’t be were you were now. I wouldn’t be living anywhere near as comfortably as I do if I didn’t work at the club. So yes it was the best decision. I’ve met girls who didn’t have a pot to piss in when they started only to go on and afford a down payment on a house.
id: 466617 - Text: Truth is most homes in America are toxic - they don’t teach their kids their worth, how to have boundaries, they argue in front of their children, abuse them. It’s an epidemic. The lack of self awareness of parents breeds generations of traumatized people. I had complex trauma and didn’t even know. I didn’t live in the ghetto. It was a gilded cage though. Perfectionist father, traumatized mother. She had been sexually abused by her own dad who was wealthy. It crosses through all spheres.
id: 466625 - Text: She’s gorgeous and nice and curvy. I’m sure a lot of guys really enjoy watching her strip.
I’ve noticed a lot of these strippers will turn around and say that men are pigs and weirdos. Of course they are. That’s why these women are making tons of money stripping. I mean, we like to see woman naked and moving sexy…of course.
Well, I hope she loves her body, cause it’s gorgeous.
id: 466628 - Text: such a nice young woman Cherry,i will add that not all men are the same when it comes to sex or women!,so try and keep your self open to that 🙂.