id: 587145 - Text: I resonate with a lot of his experiences, but my take on it all is quite different from his. I find it tragic that the universe has made male and female humans (the majority, not all) so different with regard to our strongest instinct, sex for males, and security for females. That dynamic has been basis for the existence of the oldest profession, and the war of the sexes ever since time began. It's fascinating how that dynamic can be symbiotic and mutually satisfying, providing the participants are happily and loving fulfilling each others' wants and desires, or tragic like the condition he describes here. What he isn't being real about is the pain and self hatred that comes from having to purchase sex instead of it being readily and easily available, without having to be dehumanizing and objectifying...and just being married, or in a relationship not all the time provides that. Well, it is, what, it IS.
id: 587150 - Text: Right away, man... this guy is well spoken, well educated, skilled, good upbringing, and he's attractive. I don't understand paying for sex personally, I guess there's stuff that appeals to people that I'll never understand. But this guy doesn't need to pay for sex. Maybe he doesn't want a relationship. Just like me and porn I guess lol... I just wouldn't pay for sex because sex isn't really all that appealing to me, nor is a relationship. Just sorta weird, the world we live in. I cannot understand every one's intentions or desires all of the time, but I can at least relate to all humans in that we're human.
id: 587190 - Text: A "trick" is a customer of a prostitute - I wasn't sure when I first saw the titles, then I remembered! "Turning tricks" = selling sex.
id: 587191 - Text: A man who pays prostitutes for sex are known as tricks in that world.
id: 587244 - Text: These guys put too much importance in Sex.
id: 587253 - Text: He's just addicted to sex now. Not that big a deal.
id: 587255 - Text: Yep....sex is a want...not a need.
id: 587310 - Text: What have you learnt about women after these interactions with these girls?
He hasn't learnt anything about general women which he actually can use in the real world.
He has learnt a lot about prostitutes.
You can probably learn things about women in general by having sex with prostitutes.
However to learn more about women, interact with women outside that environment.
Interact with your mother, your sister, the wives pof your pals. That'll learn you what you need to know to get a real relationship with a woman.
He's asked another question about what he's learnt about women.
He's answer is not to love the ones you love but love the ones that love you.
You can't chose who to love!
Something's missing here.
I want to know what happened with him since he suddenly started using prostitutes at the age of 40 pluss.
If you're into prostitutes isn't it very weird to wait that long?
I wonder what happened in his marriage since things turned like this for him.
id: 587327 - Text: @fireinthelake I was severely emotionally abused in my childhood....no porn, alcohol, drugs, sex, etc in my life. Life is all about choices...
id: 587329 - Text: @fireinthelake You are wrong my friend. I was severely traumatized...and I have not been completely healed from it. I'm a Christian and I've given it to God. I know a woman (she was daily raped by her brother....she went through an insane traumatic childhood). She NEVER turned to drugs/illicit sex/alcohol/food. She has her college degree and is happily married. She's not completely healed of her trauma yet either. I'll say it again: LIFE IS ALL ABOUT CHOICES. YOUR WILLPOWER IS NOT FOR SALE!