id: 1344019 - Text: Kazumi is obviously mature, free spirited, intelligent, insightful, philosophical, logical, honest, vulnerable, transparent, optimistic and confident. So much so, it’s almost hard to believe Kazumi is discussing a taboo topic, casual sex and being promiscuous.
I’m not judging, however, I have raised my kids to have similar mindsets, but with 1 person. I know I sound traditional, but, as Kazumi mentioned, ppl can make situations complicated. So rather than be super open and say anything goes with anyone at anytime… my point was to emphasize a healthy sexual relationship with their person of choice. There’s no reason why a couple, friends with benefits, whatever, can’t explore each other and find fun and creative ways to pleasure one another.
Again, I’m not judging Kazumi, nor am I condoning anything that suggests irresponsible behaviors that can have negative consequences (such as Kazumi stated, e.g., strangers and non consensual moments).
Great interview with a very bright woman. Kazumi is definitely a Unicorn 🦄
id: 1344022 - Text: A product seller . Whatever product you choose to sell, sex, brain work, caring services etc, it’s your choice.
id: 1344027 - Text: Just because you don’t degrade yourself sexually doesn’t mean you’re repressed.
id: 1344033 - Text: When you say your not hurting anyone that’s not true! Sex and porn make people become addicted Your fueling people’s addiction that hurts them and everyone in connection with them. It’s more hurt than you can imagine. But I do appreciate your share but I just wanted to shed light on an area you may not have considered.
id: 1344035 - Text: She seems naive and I don’t think she believes a lot of the things she says. Its not surprising that someone who was not allowed outside until 17 would be socially stunted and so desperate for friendship, attention, and validation that they throw “sex parties” at 19 and get fucked on a mattress in the middle of the room with dudes standing around masturbating. Of course those guys want to be her friend lol. Other girls are socially well-adjusted and don’t do that. After being denied any sort of autonomy over her life in her teenage years, she discovered sex as a way to fill this void.
id: 1344049 - Text: I like how onlyfans “models” call their videos content creation 😂 No disrespect, but for me this is the exact same thing as sex chat rooms
id: 1344056 - Text: I can strongly relate to Kazumi's life and approach to sexuality to some extent. I am also Asian and sex was never a topic at home. I was not raised as someone who would eventually have sex. It was not a taboo but just never discussed. When I lost my virginity at 19, it was a massive revelation and I threw myself into sex in the freest way possible. I had sex with strangers, did public sex and threesomes. It was awesome. But, at some point, I realised that the men I encountered were treating me with no respect, with disdain even. I even found myself in dangerous situations. That made me feel horrible. One day, I was referring this to a friend and she said something that touched me deeply. She said : "You like having sex with all these people because when they treat you like you are a Princess, you feel like a Princess. But, when they treat you like a slut, you feel like one. When you truly feel YOU ARE A PRINCESS, then you'll meet a Prince". And I realised those words were absolutely true. From then, I stopped my crazy stuff (which was actually taking a lot of time and energy from me, and not giving me much energy in return). I worked on finding my true self and embracing my value as a person, not just as a sexual being but in a broader way. Today, I am in my forties and living my best life. I am happy, I know I am capable of everything, I have a wonderul partner who treats me like the great person I know I am, and I have a teenage son who is loving and treats people, men and women, with respect.
I am not saying Kazumi has the same issues as the ones that were mine. I just thought I'd share my story as ours started in such a similar way. Cheers Kazumi! I hope you'll be happy forever. ♡
id: 1344084 - Text: @speedforce131 Thank you very much for your comment. I had never realised that, being an Asian woman, I was fetishized. Never. But as I read your lines, I understand I was indeed. And, probably, I have accepted to submit myself to these disrespectful men in a thankful way (like, thank you for having me though I am short and my face is wide). Can you believe I have always dissociated my ethnicity from my dating? I mean, it's the first time, after 20 years, that I realise that I am seen as an Asian woman and that I also behave like one (compliance, etc). Maybe it's because I live in a country where we don't categorize people by their ethnicity. We really don't. So I though my behaviour was above my ethnicity. Yet, in the light of your comment, I come to acknowledge that possibly, non-white women do get stigmatized as exotic compliant sexual beings (which I totally was/am?). Thank you very much for opening my eyes.
id: 1344107 - Text: So mark and her had happy sex and moved on happily ever after 🎉😂
id: 1344114 - Text: real sex is an expression of the soul